27th November 2019

Christmas Party Do's and Don'ts

Christmas Party Do's and Don'ts – A Complete Guide

This guide covers practical advice for navigating the office Christmas party, including tips for eating and drinking sensibly, maintaining professional conduct, and making the most of the occasion without regret the next morning.

Why the Christmas Party Deserves a Little Preparation

The office Christmas party is one of the few occasions where colleagues socialise outside of a professional context, often with a free bar and a buffet involved. A little preparation goes a long way toward enjoying the evening without consequences — dietary, professional or otherwise.

Christmas Party Do's

1. Eat a Substantial Meal During the Day Arriving on an empty stomach is a reliable way to overindulge later. Eating a proper lunch during the day reduces hunger at the event and helps moderate both food and alcohol consumption during the evening.

2. Stay Hydrated Throughout the Day Starting the evening already dehydrated makes the effects of alcohol more pronounced. Aim to drink at least 1.5 litres of water during the day before attending.

3. Support Your Liver in Advance Taking regular doses of milk thistle in the days before the event has been shown to support liver function in processing alcohol.

4. Avoid the Punch Bowl Punch is notoriously difficult to gauge in terms of alcohol content and is typically very high in calories due to the combination of spirits, juices and mixers. Stick to drinks where the measure is clear.

5. Eat Mindfully at the Buffet Serve a plate of food, step away from the buffet table and eat it. Grazing continuously throughout the evening is a straightforward route to overconsumption.

6. Keep Track of Canapés If it is a finger food event, keeping canapé sticks is a practical way to monitor intake. Canapés are often calorie-dense despite their small size.

7. Only Eat What You Actually Enjoy There is no obligation to eat everything available. Prioritise food you genuinely want rather than eating out of habit or proximity to the buffet.

8. Pace Your Alcohol Consumption A few drinks is entirely reasonable — the point at which enjoyment tips into liability is worth being aware of before the evening begins. Stopping before that point is always the right call.

9. Use the Dance Floor Dancing is an effective distraction from food and alcohol and burns calories in the process. It does not require natural talent to be worthwhile.

10. Choose Lower-Calorie Mixers Spirits with slimline tonic or diet mixers are significantly lower in calories than cocktails, particularly those made with cream, coconut milk or creamy liqueurs.

Christmas Party Don'ts

1. Don't Get Too Drunk Only you know your limits, but the general principle is straightforward: if you are becoming a liability or a safety concern to those around you, stop drinking.

2. Don't Negotiate a Pay Rise The Christmas party is not the venue for contract discussions. A pay rise requires facts, figures and a considered approach — not a conversation conducted at a free bar.

3. Don't Bring Uninvited Guests to a Free Bar Generous in spirit, but not appropriate. The free bar is for employees, not their friends.

4. Don't Make Unwanted Advances Toward Colleagues Beyond the obvious personal reasons, employers can be held legally responsible for the conduct of employees at work events. Sexual harassment at a Christmas party carries the same legal implications as harassment in the workplace.

5. Don't Overload at the Buffet Eating too much too early will affect energy levels for the rest of the evening and compounds the effects of alcohol. If hunger strikes later, the buffet is usually still available.

6. Don't Talk About Work All Night The Christmas party is an opportunity to connect with colleagues beyond the professional context. Unless both parties genuinely find it cathartic, moaning about work is best saved for another occasion.

7. Don't Fight This falls under gross misconduct. It is a Christmas party, not a contact sport.

8. Don't Gossip or Badmouth Colleagues It is tempting, it will happen around you, and it is best avoided. Christmas is a season of goodwill — leaning into that is more enjoyable for everyone.

9. Don't Skip It Without Good Reason Not everyone celebrates Christmas, and that is entirely valid. However, skipping the party purely out of reluctance — particularly if it is a social rather than religious decision — can reflect poorly professionally.

10. Don't Forget to Say Thank You Someone organised the event. Acknowledging that effort costs nothing and is always appreciated.

Quick Reference Summary

DoDon't
Eat a big lunch beforehandGet too drunk
Stay hydrated during the dayAsk for a pay rise
Take milk thistle in advanceBring uninvited guests
Avoid the punch bowlMake unwanted advances
Eat mindfully and step away from the buffetOverload at the buffet
Keep track of canapésTalk about work all evening
Choose lower-calorie mixersFight
Pace your alcohol consumptionGossip or badmouth colleagues
Hit the dance floorSkip it without good reason
Only eat what you enjoyForget to say thank you

Related Topics

  • Healthy eating during the festive season
  • Alcohol and fitness — what you need to know
  • Calorie awareness for gym-goers
  • Maintaining your gym routine over Christmas
  • Nutrition tips for social occasions


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